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Marriage

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 Marriage is an official , legal way in which two individuals become spouse.  In a country like India wedding is celebrated in a very religious and magnificent way.  Holding of eachother hand comes with taking up of responsibilities that includes both. I always wondered how marriage works? It's indeed an institutional value. But what makes one accept the other person? Do they know soo much about each other ? Or is it because of a few encouragable qualities that let one to view them with the special lens?  A love that has blossomed between the two due to knowing eachother well leads to marriage or is it artificially made by the external factors?  In the sense the individuals in some cases doesn't know eachother ,who haven't spoken to eachother, haven't known the likes and dislikes of the other and so on but still nod for the happiness of the elders. Will that few seconds of offering a cup of coffee and snacks to him and his family be sufficient to decide him as a...

Punch

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  A monkey named Punch was born in July26, 2025 at Ichikawa Zoo in the Japan. The monkey has become a center of attention in all the social media platforms and news headlines. Punch is a Japanese macaque which means a snow monkey.   If We could recollect the theory of evolution of humans in the work of ON THE ORIGIN OF SPECIES By Charles Darwin, it gives an understanding that homo sapiens have not originated on own but rather through a shared lineage with apes and other primates.   The baby monkey Punch is abandoned by his own mother. Despite the fact that monkey community raise their children with a lot of love and care. And this could be one of the exceptional cases in the history of ethology.   The photographs, video clips of Punch are ample evidence to acknowledge the deserted and wretched state.   Zoo has taken this situation into a serious consideration and has given the baby monkey with an Djungelskog brand orangutan. Punch have it not just a...

Valentine’s Day

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It’s Valentine’s Day tomorrow. I have not celebrated it in my 23 years of life, but I still wish to shed some light on it. I have always admired couples around me the beauty of eye contact between them, the cautious distancing, and the cutest of all, the height difference. Girls are always their dad’s little princesses. They are pampered at almost all ages. The love is unconditional this is known and admired by others. From a girl in the womb, carried by her mother for nine months, to the phase where her boyfriend carries her heavy bag, love is just magnificent. Love is meant to be felt. Emotions need to be acknowledged, and efforts should be respected. Boyfriends and girlfriends out there spend a lot on Valentine’s Day. I’m neither for nor against it. But I genuinely think love is built on understanding and living in reality. Social media buzz often drives people crazy to an extent where feelings are validated or approved only through gifting. Every well-to-do person can opt for it...

Thou canst wound me no more

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 Am I the God's last creation ? His he worn out jus like my body ? which apparatus thou employ to build this firm soul? He was staunch to me unlike humankind Psyche sponged the affliction Wringing out of bleeding drops  filled the pail It snapped back but the remaining blood turned into thrombus so thou canst wound me no more

Beat on in faithful rhythm

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The mornings are mist-laden, draped in cotton-soft clouds. A saffron surge of sunlight unfurls. Hens stir, sounding alarms to mechanical minds. Friends remain gentle, warm with quiet care. My heels aligned with the urgency of the moment, striving to chase a train already departed. Heavy breaths inhales and exhales held their strength, yet the roaming mind proved far more relentless. Home rests in stillness and ease, yet thoughts hum restlessly. At times, my family’s voices slip past unheard, while my heartbeat speaks with piercing clarity. The world beyond shows kindness, but the ache within my chest shows none. Beat on, in faithful rhythm for should you stop, the soul cannot endure.

Galti kiski thi?

 गलती किसकी थी? बहुत प्यार करने वालों की या धोखा देने वालों की? मैं डूब गई, जैसे मछली पानी में। Whose fault was it? Those who loved too much, or those who betrayed? I drowned, like a fish in water

Parenting Styles

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  Everyone is grown up in different environment. Parenting has different styles. Parenting in my perspective is how parents bring up their child through the help of certain beliefs, customs, values and tradition. The child will likely to have qualities such as their behavior, attitude that is due to the parenting style.   The different types of parenting   Authoritative Parenting Authoritative parenting is also known as Ideal style of parenting. Parents impose rigid rules. And explain why is it so.   However, they also hear from the children and how they feel. Parents of this type are caring, as well as strict. They help their children to make good decisions. This eventually creates the children to feel safe and cared. They grow up to become assertive and happy. Example Situation:   A child willingly to go out with friends at night, the parents don’t allow or give permission not that they didn’t want their child to enjoy the nightlife but rathe...