Marriage

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 Marriage is an official , legal way in which two individuals become spouse. 

In a country like India wedding is celebrated in a very religious and magnificent way. 

Holding of eachother hand comes with taking up of responsibilities that includes both.


I always wondered how marriage works?

It's indeed an institutional value. But what makes one accept the other person?

Do they know soo much about each other ? Or is it because of a few encouragable qualities that let one to view them with the special lens?


 A love that has blossomed between the two due to knowing eachother well leads to marriage or is it artificially made by the external factors? 


In the sense the individuals in some cases doesn't know eachother ,who haven't spoken to eachother, haven't known the likes and dislikes of the other and so on but still nod for the happiness of the elders.

Will that few seconds of offering a cup of coffee and snacks to him and his family be sufficient to decide him as a potential future partner ? On the other hand for the man who have a glimpses of the woman dolled up for few seconds appearance.


Marriage nowadays has commercialised much that one takes the privilege to putforth their preferences related to race, height, which is displeasing. 

There is rapid space of families welcoming 

LOVE MARRIAGE. the girl and a guy who falls madly in love with eachother who knows how to carry forward the life after marriage. In some Love marriages the couple are denied of parents approval. But In my opinion when the two individuals are comfortable to share the rest of life with other even after becoming successful thats how much it takes and it needs to be respected. 


Let's say an arranged marriage couple are leading a really blissful life, but how much awkward is it to even hear random aunties turn up just to ask "any GooD News?" 


Isnt it the couple's privacy? Isn't it their choice to plan for the kid ? If the marriage is chosen by the family is it necessary that they should choose when the couple should have an intimacy? 


At the base we need to understand that all we need to do is breathe and let the married couple have their own space. 



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